I never get off.  I end up concentrating/working so hard with my hands that I can’t relax and let go, and I never orgasm.

My shower head used to work, though, when it was one of the removable ones.  Perhaps I just need to invest in some toys to help me out.

That, or I need a man who’s around more often to give me what I need.  Alex and I haven’t been able to see each other in two weeks now…it’s starting to have an affect on me.