I’ve realized I’m hesitant to give direction to guys in bed, because I worry I’ll be repetitive. 99% of the time, if we’re in the middle of sex, I’m going to direct you to the clitoris. Because that’s what feels best/will get me off.
I feel like that’s such a boring, uncreative suggestion, though, so I rarely voice it. I guess I need to come to terms with the fact that I like what I like, and I should only be having sex with people who won’t judge me for that. The rest can go f*ck themselves, if they don’t like the way I do it.
