April 2010
5 posts
Masturbation Just Doesn't Do It For Me
I never get off. I end up concentrating/working so hard with my hands that I can’t relax and let go, and I never orgasm.
My shower head used to work, though, when it was one of the removable ones. Perhaps I just need to invest in some toys to help me out.
That, or I need a man who’s around more often to give me what I need. Alex and I haven’t been able to see each other in...
I need to combine two men.
One of them I’m wildly attracted to physically, we have good (but not great, I’ll admit) sex, and he’s all kinds of sexy, but we’d crash and burn as a couple.
The other I’m falling madly in love with on an emotional level, but have no attraction to whatsoever.
I’ve realized I’m hesitant to give direction to guys in bed, because I worry I’ll be repetitive. 99% of the time, if we’re in the middle of sex, I’m going to direct you to the clitoris. Because that’s what feels best/will get me off.
I feel like that’s such a boring, uncreative suggestion, though, so I rarely voice it. I guess I need to come to terms...
I hate that sex makes men tired.
Seriously. LoverBoy and I are both annoyed at this. Morning sex wakes me up and means that I have a fantastic, productive day, but it leaves him in an exhausted haze until he can nap or get to bed that night. Thoughts on how to get around this? C’mon, there’s got to be a trick out there somewhere.
“We all have the potential to fall in love a thousand times in our lifetime. It’s...”
– Chuck Klosterman, Killing Yourself to Live: 85% of a True Story (via jessicachu)
this will always remind me of “this we have now” and paul, in a blazer, reading it off of notecards while a spotlight shined in his face.
this segment of “killing yourself to live” is one of the truest statements i...